Human happiness is a feeling of contentment mostly seen to cause satisfaction and joy. Happiness is however not easy to come by. One has to be committed to reaching out for it while others suggest that it is actually a matter of choice. This explains diverse thought about how one can be happy. (Henry 2004 54-61) The source of happiness is the main point of consideration since of one is in need of it, they would do anything to have it. There is a dilemma in what really counts for one to be happy. Besides having accumulated lots of wealth and gained financial stability, such people may still crave for happiness.
They may stretch their finances and still improve their living standards but still happiness cannot come. The great worry then is on what makes one happy or unhappy and how can this be achieved? During the ancestral period, little finances and resources were available and yet they found happiness in the songs and dance that they were involved. During those days, they would walk long distances to a song or dancing meeting all for the sake of happiness. Besides a hard day’s work, numerous children and other commitments, they still found time to be happy. (Herbert 2000 pp. 122-143)
In the world today, man has been involved in sporting activities, cinema and movies, holidays and among other issues, he has tried to buy happy moments with money. Man has devoted his time in accumulating so much wealth in a quest to have more happiness. Big houses, businesses, cars and all kind of luxury at their exposure yet they are not happy. Man has failed to understand that happiness comes from an individual having a meaningful life where he can use his strength as well as virtues to make the best out of them. Man has also ignored the fact that, what they are involved in is supposed to be their cause for happiness.
(Arch &Woodside, 2004 pp 34-39) Slum dwellers have little resources and food and other basic needs are as hard as anything else to come by. They live with meager resources, survive in congested areas, their children suffer diseases and the society looks at them as pitiable. Behind the scene, those dwellers find happiness in the life they live because they purpose on achieving a goal in life. Despite the suffering, financial constraints among others, they are happy to live with for example their ten children under the same roof and a husband who comes to the house at the end of the day.
They find happiness in their family despite financial instability. (Daniel 2006 pp 78-89) “We generally believe that external conditions such as food friends, cars, and money are the real causes of happiness, and as a result we devote nearly all our time and energy to acquiring these” Quoted from . (Geshe&, Kelsang 2001 pp 5) The rich enjoy luxurious beds and beddings, houses and comfort but the long hours spent out of the house and away from the family are no cause for happiness. The separation, loneliness and job pressures are a cause for dissatisfaction and hence unhappiness.
Many people for example find happiness in the media whereby they can watch movies, play games and even have access to the internet. The movies display diverse culture, personalities and even celebrities. They demonstrate advance in technology and financial strengths of certain people and nations. Numerous advertisements occur on the screen and man has little knowledge on the impact it has on the psychological thinking process. Consequently, they engage in the activities that they see on the screen, partying, drinking, eating and finally suffer health complications such as diabetes and obesity.
Man is made to think that what is on the screen is the best and so enters into this hoping that he would get happiness. (Nigel 2001 pp. 85-88) In a short while, they are not comfortable in what they own and so want to try on what they saw but are disappointed in learning that it actually cannot cause happiness. After all, even our ancestors, despite not having such a choice to acquire what they thought could make them happier, they were happy anyway. From the basic needs man wants to have esteem needs met and at the optimal level they want self-actualization.
The dire need to achieve all these needs is what drives man to think that is the same way they can achieve maximum happiness. Others find happiness in shopping for dress codes, shoe designs and literally what attracts their eyes. In fact they enjoy spending money either by use of credit card or by other means. At the end of the day, they are in debt and the result is frustration and stress as they strain to pay them. There is so much worry then on the worth of such adventures that barely lead to unhappiness. (M. Joseph 2002 pp. 123-128)
The world today is miserable as crime rates go high as people try to accumulate wealth and money through unjustified means. They imagine that having the wealth would ultimately be the solution to finding happiness. Instead they suffer guilt, are arrested or even die as they try to steal. The reality of happiness is that it is a choice that one can make and be in. Happiness is all in the thought because so many things are a success in our life. The world is more industrious, more wealth can be accumulated, opportunities open every day and in all these there is cause for happiness since this is not available to everyone.
Many live in poverty, suffering and in pain, they even suffer health complications but are still happy to be alive. When one is successful, you can win false friends and true enemies but this should not hinder you from being happy. This means that many people are not wishing for you to be happy and so one should make a choice to be happy. If being kind to people gives you happiness, you have to make it happen despite people saying you are selfish with ulterior motives. In fact one can make up his/her mind to be happy by learning to find pleasure in simple things.
This is because many are lacking resources yet they find happiness in what they can avail for themselves. It is also important to have a flow in your life so as to remain happy and this comes when the mind is off stressful issues and concerns and instead is busy on other activities that lead to happiness. One should not be exhausted by the fortune of having parent to care for you, children healthy and comfortable in life because there are others that have no choice as they starve, stay in the cold, have no access to health facilities nor anywhere to call home.
Happiness therefore should be a priority since despite much success and good relationships do not guarantee happiness but the little privileges that one enjoys are enough to cause a smile. Happiness is a human right in which one can have intellectual tools through which they can enjoy happiness. Depression, frustration and stress are seen to occur when man claims that there is no happiness. (Richard 2006 pp. 77-84) These conditions come about as they dedicate time to accumulate wealth, achieve great heights and even attaining high profile in the society.
All these activities do not justify the unhappy end when one cannot achieve them. This calls to say that one should be happy at all times for the little they are able to achieve and keep working hard to achieve the others without much greed, haste and lack of control. (David 2006 pp. 76-79) Happiness is actually being in control of what one is living on, pursuing and aspiring to do or have. Our emotional life can be enhanced when one thinks of what makes happy people happy rather than looking at what causes depression in the depressed.
Our actions and attitudes is what influence us to either be happy or unhappy. Coupled with determination on focusing on our strength and other virtues, we can make life prosperous and enjoy happiness. The mental well being is even a great cause for happiness since even sanity is already a gift too precious to be happy about. (Ryuho 2004 pp. 156-162) (William & David 2001 33-41) In a social institution like marriage, money does not bring happiness. This is because the union is grounded on love between the two hearts rather than material wealth and financial stability.
Happiness therefore can come from what you love. Therefore it is all in the mind for those that target happiness to achieve it. Love for a partner brings happiness and his wealth would just be an added advantage that can enhance their relationship when they use it to buy happy moments in clubs or on holiday. Even in our daily activities we have to look for meaning and happiness in all the activities that around us. Happiness to some extent is within human control as it can come from family members, good health and values, work and finances as well as freedom and the community at large.
If happiness is found in these issues then one can be able to give back to the society due to the comfort and satisfaction that one enjoys. “It has already been noted that happy people are more productive, so the link between happiness and productivity is bi-directional. Certain types of work situations facilitate happiness and happiness in turn facilitate greater productivity. ” (Quoted from Allan, 2004 pp. 30) In leisure and recreation, this is the only way that man can relate with the community and interact with friends and neighbors.
Such a relation brings unity in diversity as they share ideas and thoughts that can build their community. This brings people together and creates a lasting relationship that can go beyond the time when they will have retired. (William & David 2001 54-66) Leisure and tourism is also associated to the preservation of nature and cultures. To an extent, tourism and particularly travel has no change in general level of happiness but may be principality due to activities that take place in a trip. Tourism has become a marketing issue with leisure as a means of seeking happiness.
While being at work, good recommendations, appraisals and promotion may be hard to come to you from the management and as a result there is so much insecurity at the work place and perhaps this is the reason the people are seeking happiness in a different direction. The free time that one has, can be transformed to leisure time as the mind relaxes and stimulates the feeling of happiness. So much time is dedicated to jobs, and after work survival in the community is a real struggle as one looks for happiness. Since man has discovered that he has a right to life and happiness, leisure era has been exposed over time.
The time dedicated to leisure is a perception of life in search of happiness. (Darrin 2006 187-190) In life time is the resource within which man should enjoy happiness and in fact should spare time to reward himself through leisure. During the free time, one has an opportunity to explore the space of freedom and make themselves happy. Work and career have stopped being the sole focus in life and instead should give the individual time in the social world. The era of leisure is here to stay in our mind and in the society. Leisure puts the mind in a position that it can fulfill its uniqueness and making more discoveries.
In human geography, it does not mould a person but rather man has to create the relation and invent in the place. If it gives pleasure to be in a leisure activity it is a right to happiness. Money, time and other resources should be aimed at providing the very best for the person. (William & David 2001 pp 79-89) (Chris 2002 pp31-49) Happiness is what gives pleasure and the feeling could be in the physical sense. The effect could be short term but man’s effort should be to maintain a happy life where they take issues as they come and solve problems as they present themselves.
While searching for happiness man wants to understand his life and seek to have meaningful representation of the elements that life presents itself. All he discovers and wonders on nature these are issues attempted by the mind as it tries to achieve happiness. (Chris 2002 pp 31-49) Man also seeks to have experience in life and so he is able to understand nature and gain wisdom on it. Man can also have a balance of life through interacting with the world. In the leisure era, there are many opportunities as well as risks. Tourism is a pursuit of pleasure and happiness where one can access entertainment to please his life and enjoy his liberty.
Happiness comes from constant stimulation and when it is not there, there is boredom and just incase it is achieved it may lead to stress and tension. This means that man has to control choice and his actions so that they do not venture into seeking happiness and end up frustrated and unhappy. Active participation in other activities that are bound to cultivate happiness are advocated mostly because if one needs to be happy then they need to have a purpose in life, be creative and give meaning to life. There are other leisure needs that may end to unhappiness and so one should be careful to make a right choice.
(Boethius &Richard 2002 pp. 167-171) Those that aim to have happiness in hard drugs like cocaine and heroine and others like tobacco and alcohol end up suffering health wise and may even cause death. If it is a leisure activity, it should be aimed to be a reward for the effort and commitment that one has shown in their work and so it should even complement their success. Leisure refreshes the mind, makes man more adventurous in an activity where they can stimulate more thought on achieving happiness in life. It is leisure that gives life meaning and substance.
(Geshe&, Kelsang 2001 pp 100-105) A social psychologist William McDougall from Harvard defined happiness by writing that people can be happy while going through pain and also when experiencing pleasure. In this he explained a feel-good happiness, which does not last long, and also a value-based happiness which gives meaning to life. It is also important to learn that while one is enduring happiness it cannot be found when the aim is to have more fun or seek more pleasure. Happiness should be a basic desire and that it may not be permanent but rather needs constant cultivation and reinforcing.
An appropriate means of achieving these desires should be identified so that as time goes by one can repeatedly satisfy these desires. Value based happiness can be achieved through family, leisure or religion. Watching games or a movie at leisure time gives an opportunity to experience the valued feelings in the competition, or revenge seen in these activities. (Archibald et al 1840 pp. 201-208) Leisure and tourism has a role in human happiness because through the various leisure activities offered, human beings have had vacations in such areas to enjoy the liberty and right to life.
Leisure and tourism have offered an opportunity for people to relax in serene environment, away from their normal duties and issues of life and also enjoy what they have worked for. This is to say that they find happiness in what they have put their energies into. In these places, they are able to interact with people from other nations, different business ventures and cultural background and since man is a social being, they are able to interact, learn and appreciate diversity. Many issues that regard work place are forgotten for some time and this is an appropriate time to make decisions about the progress that one is supposed to take.
At the same time, it gives them joy to visit sites, animals and experience different climatic and geographic diversity. This is usually very constructive for them especially because they are able to appreciate nature and discover what they have not been able to learn practically or see at close range. (Fred 2000 pp. 211-216) (Sue 1999 pp. 45-49) During a trip, a visit to animal parks makes man appreciate the uniqueness of each creature and the extent to which he has control over himself.
Animals enjoy their natural habitat, sometime do not have what to feed but somehow they are able to survive in the dangerous environment that they can be preyed and killed. In such a sense, man can appreciate the unique creature that he is, the ability to think and control his life. He also gets happy about the great consideration, opportunities and experience that they are exposed to and hence they can work harder and take pride in their uniqueness. (Adam Smith 2007 pp90-102) Leisure and tourism exposes man to the hospitality that they experience at the hotels and lodging.
Through this they can appreciate the human nature to serve and care. They develop value-based happiness. Leisure and tourism in UK has a lot to offer with a vast countryside and attraction sites. It has charming places with modern and traditional hotel set-ups where camping and caravan parks can be accessed. There are shopping malls, pubs and restaurants around the borough and is central to the objectives and values of the council. Sport and sporting activities are diverse with stadiums that can hold many with excellent local and national training facilities. (John & Elizabeth 1978 pp54-78) (Joseph & Mara 2004pp.
69-73) Their mission is to bring communities together as they share cultural diversity. There are archaeology sites, arts information, operated caravan parks, country parks, museum and visitor centers, ranger services as one goes in, sports and recreation that includes swimming pools and development centers with extensive attraction castles, accommodation and travel information. There is a global potential demand to visit UK and there is a research that shows a latent increase in its demand. The research also shows that there is a common desire for tourists to stay for longer period while viewing earth and increasing their motivation.
There are main determinants and motivations that influence the increase in such space. The forecasting was done especially because the consumers are in need of a specific product or service. (Alan 2004 pp. 16-23) (Hannah 1990 pp. 99-106) Leisure and tourism has a great role in human happiness in a global context. Man has sought to have vocational periods where they are out of the normal duty and have realized that life has another dimension besides work. It could be culturally based as leisure and freedom to liberty may be evidence across cultural backgrounds but the main idea is that it has had a global interest.
(Daniel, 2005 pp 144-152) (John & Anthony 2005 pp. 97-101) Tourism has grown from local to international heights. This has created more happiness to man as they are able to appreciate nature and uniqueness of the planet earth. As they achieve their other needs, self-actualization which would come informs of discoveries, adventures and close relation with world’s nature. Leisure and tourism has opened international boundaries and has brought unity in diversity, learning opportunity, economic growth, and technological adaptation among others.
The era of leisure is a crucial moment where happiness can be given a chance, be cultivated and initiated in the human beings. (John & Seppo1997 pp. 88- 99)
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